There’s a lot that gets lost in translation between men and women. For ages, there has been talk about how we don’t understand each other, no matter how hard we try. Fights, misunderstandings, breakups, and divorces happen because of it, and it’s an inexhaustible topic for films, TV shows, books, songs, and conversations with friends.
In the quest to understand each other better, we sometimes ask the opposite gender online to tell us things they would never say to us out loud. This time is no different; we collected the most interesting answers from the thread where one netizen asked men: “If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn?”
Some of the answers might anger women, others will be quite eye-opening. But one thing is true: these are real things some men experience and want to be talked about more. So, let’s see what they think and talk about it in the comments!
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Those long fake eyelashes? They are not s**y. No guy has ever thought, “she’d be hot if she had ridiculously stupidly long eyelashes”.#4
We often stay quiet about emotional pain because, far too often, it is turned into a weapon against us.#5
We hate it when you mess with your face. If you’re 25, it’s ok to look 25. If you’re 37, it’s ok to look 37. If you’re 52, it’s ok to look 52. It’s ok to look your age.
Please stop with the crazy surgeries on your face; you are beautiful already.#6
Have you gained some weight? Yeah. Are you fat? Yeah, a bit.
Do I care? No.
Are you still the most beautiful women on the face of the Earth to me? YES.#7
Three things I’ve noticed pop up in not just my relationship, but the relationship of pretty much all the men I know.
1. We aren’t mind readers. Please just say what you want.
2. Most men are happy to do whatever project you want (assuming it’s within financial reason), but please don’t micro-manage while we work.
3. Think to yourself if you actually would like our opinion before you ask for it.#8
How many of us are actually not OK.#9
How under appreciated a lot of fathers feel today. When my wife is spoiled by the entire family on mother’s day. When I dedicate an expensive, lavish date for her and my daughter makes gifts and a card for her. Yet here I sit, alone at 12pm on yet another father’s day and haven’t even heard a word from either of them nor my mother who wanted to keep my daughter this weekend knowing it was father’s day weekend.
I know I can’t say anything about it, because I don’t want an argument and any appreciation afterwards wouldn’t be genuine. Being a father feels like a thankless and completely expected job despite how many deadbeats there are.#10
Well, my wife would be pretty surprised to find out just how attractive I still find her. She’s still smokin’ but won’t take my word for it.
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